Everything is a learning experience

Over the past few weeks, I've realized that 1. no matter how much I complain about my job and the people I work with- I absolutely love my job and the great people I work with. While there is always room for improvement, I think I'm pretty lucky. 2. Every obstacle is a learning experience and we can't grow if we never face adversity.

Here's what I've learned from my latest fiasco:

• I'm not afraid to stand up for myself
• I could use some refinement in my communication skills
• My direct, action oriented communication style, while highly efficient, can be perceived as abrasive
• Meetings would be easier if I can communicated better with different communication styles, particularly visionaries.
• I expect clear expectations when starting a project and if I don't get them I ask for them
• People can't always explain what they want because they really don't know
  
• I hold myself to a higher standard by not doing what the customer asks and doing the job the customer wants
• I can recognize the difference between the two
• I take things personally and I really need to let them go
• Work is important and it's not my whole life
• Sometimes it is better to keep things to myself. In a year from now, will it matter?
• People at all levels of the organization look to me to be a leader and while it can be frustrating at times, I should take it as a compliment
• An upbeat attitude and a smile go along way to smooth rocky waters
• Every experience can teach me something and there is a positive slant to every experience